Thursday, June 2, 2011

Don't have a title for this one...

Here we are in June and in counting down until our trip to Texas and Nevada! We haven't been back to NV since we moved to the DR, so we are very excited about this trip.

Last Saturday I am proud to say that my husband, who knew less Spanish than me when we moved here, gave a complete presentation to the church youth group in Spanish! Bravo! I'll be giving my testimony and words of encouragment to the girls next Saturday and we'll see how much I will use the translator. Needless to say, I'm getting by, but not near as fluent as I should be. But, sigh, I'd rather be with my children than in Spanish class.

Adeline loves giving tea parties and I've been trying to break out an English accent for her. She and Darton just crack up laughing at me. Last week there really was a true tea in my home for an English girlfriend expecting her first child this summer. The hostesses of the party created the fun hat Adeline had on her head. All the guests has one to wear. We also made tuts at the tea and Adeline is wearing the one I made for her. I need to go buy more material to make it fuller.
Notice all her stuffed animals at her tea party. She loves serving us cookies. Matthias is 6months. He is sitting up and is getting his first tooth. He started eating aguacate (avacado) tonight and this is his second night in his own room. He's still trying to wake up 2 or 3 times a night, so hopefully being in his own room will fix that problem. In two weeks however, he'll be back in my room as wel stay with family and friends for 4 weeks. Maybe he'll get the hang of sleeping through the night in the next two weeks and won't regress once we are on vacation.

Dominicans think I am crazy for feeding him avacado at six months instead of habichuelas (beans). I was told last week at church that at 2 months babies are fed cereal through a bottle and then by 5 months they are eating everything (including meat) after it's put in the blender. Seriously?! I've learned how to say politely, "What you do in your country is not what we do in ours."
Adeline finishes up another year in all-Spanish school next week. Darton will join her for the same two days next year and the other 2 or 3 we will be more dedicated to a true schooling schedule in the home (namely with phonics and math). She started asking this week how to write specific words to put on her paper. I call out the sound(s) of the letter (as opposed to the name of the letter) and then she writes it. She also started drawing flowers in the last two week. Here we are coloring the Red River that Moses and the Israelites crossed. After they painted, we tore off the masking tape to have a "path" through the river. (taken from Little Hands to Heaven)

Darton and I sat down 3 days last week with a shapes workbook. He LOVED it and insisted that he get to drink a cup of coffee while doing his work!






On Monday Darton took a chunk out of Adeline's back when he bit her in anger. All you moms out there can imagine how furious I was. I'm praying for wisdom to know what to say in those moments instead of reacting in rage. Scott came home that night for dinner and with wisdom from above (seriously) he was able to talk to Darton about his actions. He reminded the kids of a National Geographic show they had watched recently with animals eating other animals (yes, they wanted to watch it while I had to close my eyes!). Scott told the kids that God made us and the animals, but God made us in His image which makes us different from the animals. Therefore, we don't eat each other like the animlas do. My mouth dropped open. I can easily spit out "Be kind to one another" Eph 4:32 when training the kids on how to treat each other, but Scott took the training to the next level which I think penatrated to their hearts. Praise God for a godly husband!

Monday, May 23, 2011

Much Needed Update




We enjoyed my cousin Morgan here for a week and are greatly missing having family in the house. I'm pretty sure she got a good dose of "I'm quite happy not having kids just yet" medicine ;). She's only been married 4 months. I don't have any good pictures of her visit on my camera, but here is one of her and Adeline from her wedding. Our gordito having fun in the tub. He desparately wants out of his seat and into the water!Adeline's Mother's Day celebration at her school. Not the best of pictures...and yes, they are swimming in their underware!

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Circle of Blessing

Children, obey your parents in the Lord for this is right. Honor your father and mother which is the first commandment with promise. That it may be well with you and that you may live long on the earth. Ephesians 6:1-4

I enjoy using the advice out of Tedd Tripp's Shepherding a Child's Heart. We recently saw a fruit of our labors when Adeline drew a self-initiated drawing of the Circle of Blessings. This is the idea:

In Ephesians 6:1-3, God has drawn a circle of great blessings. Children are to live within the circle of submission to parental authority. Submission to parents means honoring and obeying. Within that circle things will go well and they will enjoy long lives (p131).

Although Scott and I poked fun about trying to use it in our training/shepherding (i.e. "you want to be in the circle don't you"), it has proven to be a great image for the kids' minds when we are conveying why they need to obey mommy and daddy.

Monday, May 9, 2011

Local Beach




Since our friends moved up to the North Coast a year ago, we hadn't been back to a beach only 30 minutes out of the city. The North Coast beach isn't little kid friendly with the wind and waves, so although Adeline has been swimming by herself for 9 months, this was her first swim in the ocean by herself. It was also Matthias's first dip in the Caribbean.

My cousin Morgan arrives on Wednesday to bring me to relief! I now understand why it's important to live near family when you have a "quiver full of them."

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Beating a Cold, Witnessing a C-Section, & Administering a Test

Scott passed a head cold onto me on Monday. I am on the up and up today after 2 1/2 days of feeling yucky and I believe that my number one ingredient in my cocktail below is the Sinusin product. I was also downing Immune Booster Tea and Yogi's Echinacea Tea since we were out of the vitamins. I believe Sinusin was key because only 12 hours after taking my first dose I was clearing up. A couple of weeks ago I transformed our living room!

BEFORE

AFTERWhat do you think?


Here's our 16 pounder! Adeline snapped this sweet moment when Darton fell asleep while I was reading The Lightlings.We celebrated Labor Day here on Monday and enjoyed a Church family day. Tuesday morning I began administering a standardized test for my son's friend which puts me out of the house for 3 hours every morning this week. It's been a nice break from my everyday routine, but it also reaffirms that I enjoy and desire to be a full-time stay at home mom. Adeline has gone to school each day, willingly, and Darton and Matthias stay at home with Ana.


Now onto the highlight of my week! My friend asked me to be a part of her labor and delivery. I nervously said "yes" and decided this was my chance to know if I really wanted to pursue being a doula. Unfortunately by the time I got to her she had decided to get an epidural at 5cm dialated, which stopped her progression, and two hours later (12 hours after her first contraction) the doctor told her it was time for a c-section. This was her second c-section and she was trying for a vaginal. I was the picture gal for the surgery and so yes, I got to see my friend's abdomen cut open and a baby being pulled-out. I "hid" behind the camera and chose not to watch with eagle eyes just in case I might lose it. No matter how Santiago entered the world, it was still a beautiful moment when he let out his first cry. I will spare all the details of opinions and whatnot, but I do want to pursue doula training. Believe it or not, the first doula training for the DR is being held in June, but it begins the day we leave for the States so this isn't God's timing for me right now. I led 2 birth art classes that Paula participated in this Spring. The first picture below was her depiction of her first delivery and the second of what she hoped her second delivery would be like. I believe she accomplished her goal. She went into this birth much more informed (Thank you Ina May) and her knowledge empowered her to experience a more controlled labor and delivery.

Bienvenidos Santiago!


Although everyone's first language in the surgery room was Spanish, they surprised me by talking in English for me. It was crazy! I don't go anywhere expecting people to speak my first language, but they did. I was very impressed and wonder why they did that??

Monday, April 25, 2011

Easter Egg Hunt...WHAT'S THAT!?

Scotty started off our Resurrection Sunday on the right foot by having us sing two hymns about the resurrection (this was especially nice since we attend church in Spanish). I even played along on the piano.





Yes, hunting for eggs is a foreign concept here. Most have heard of the idea but didn't know how it all worked. They had heard rumors of even hunting for colored hard-boiled eggs..."Really," they asked, "you do that?" We enjoyed having church friends over and introducing grown-ups to their first egg hunt. I included Resurrection Eggs in the loot to find and we all circled around after the hunt to see who had found which resurrection egg. The kids opened the resurrection eggs in the correct order and an adult told the history of its place in the resurrection story.

Adeline had a tumble, but kept on going. Darton is always quite clueless to what's right in front of him, but he did pretty good with the hunt ;)Abby found the egg with the cup representing the last supper Christ had with His disciples. Adeline was a champ and didn't whine once that she didn't find any resurrection eggs. She just listened and watched. She also did a great job pointing out candy to the small kids instead of taking it for herself.

Camping in the Dominican

We survived our first camping trip with 3 kids! I had my hesitations, namely being security, but the trip was great! Scotty found an official camping ground (rare and even unheard of in the DR) near the mine. Scotty grew up camping and I am so very thankful to Papa Geer for all the camping trips he provided for his family. Going camping with Scott isn't much work at all. He puts up the tent and cooks the food.


The kids loved playing around the fire. Hotdogs for dinner.


I LOVE watching my kids get dirty when they are having fun at it! I guess that's why camping doesn't bother me so much.


Smores for desert!



The kids COULDN'T WAIT to go "Fish n Caught." Adeline's coined phrase for going fishing to catch fish. She does this a lot actually and flips her words around. The one that comes to mind is "jacket lite" for life jacket.





Sarah's first vacation since we moved into the house almost a year and a half ago. She did great!

Our happy boy
Scotty trying to make the worms come out of the ground.


Adeline & Daddy going hunting for bugs

They found lots of termites! Our 10 man tentDarton chasing butterflies among the baby pine trees. Daddy and his girl. He told her last night that one day boys are going to like her but not to worry because he will help her pick out the best one. I love my husband!






Matthias has been my chubbiest and he's really not all that chubby. The result of on-demand feeding! Didn't know it existed with the first two.