Sunday, November 23, 2008

Real Life

I've never written much about the daily life here in the Dominican or the differences that we have encountered.

The grocery shopping is much the same. Grocery stores that we've been to are Bravo, Super Pola, Supermacado National, and La Cadena. Eggs and milk are sold on the shelf instead of in the refrigerado. And strangely enough Adeline has no allergy symstems to this milk like she does to the US milk. Wonder what the difference is? The carrots are on steriods (meaning they are huge), but I haven't found them to be very sweet. I've yet to learn all of the fruit names, but look forward to going with a friend to show me the ropes of Dominican food shopping. There are many men selling fruits and avacado in every intersection along with windshield wipers, play toys, cell phone paraphanalia, nuts, and more). I've seen what looks like a small candied apple being sold, and found out this past week that it is candy covered coconut. The price of an avacado is usually around 30 pesos (under $1 US). On almost every corner you find a colmado (small convenient store). There are 2 around our apartment. At colmodas you find all the necessities including the bottled water. We've found that we go through about two botellas a week. Each colmado has an errand boy wh0 you call to bring up your grocery item (it's way too easy to get a diet coke here). There are outside markets that we haven't been to yet, but hope to visit when Andrew and Stephanie get here.
One of the things that has taken getting used to is the trash everywhere. I think my dad would have a hernia. We've been told though that the trash system has gotten better over the last couple of years.
Electricity costs a lot of money so most people live in this heat with only the hot breeze coming in through their windows. The air conditioners are usually only in the bedrooms and turned on only at night. This of course causes a lot of dust and dirt to constently be on the floors, which are all tiled. Maintenance of tiled floors is a lot more work than carpet and I'm very thankful for my maid on Mondays. A lot poeple have live-in maids and nannies. I have a girlfriend in her mid-50s who is from Columbia and is learning how to cook for the first time in her life. Her family has always had someone to cook for them. This kind of labor is considerably cheaper here, which is why it is very common. Many Dominican children are raised by nannies. An education is very important to the Dominicans, although there are MANY who can't read or write (around 90% live below the poverty level here). So at 15 months a baby is put in some kind of learning center.
On Friday, Cynthia showed me how to cook Dominican beans and rice and fried plaintain. I did my best to make it for lunch today. Rice and beans is a very typical meal here with a green salad, avacado, and bananas on the table. I cooked the beans in the crockpot last night and through church, which made lunch very easy. It was the first rice and beans I've ever made that Scott complimented. So I felt pretty successful with my first Dominican meal. You'll notice though that we did have a Southern American dish of cucumbers in vinegar and water.
The culture here is very much every man for himself. No one feels sympathy for the next man. We were told this week if we see a woman with ten crying babies, don't stop, just pray for her. This is a hard mindset to get used to. It is very hard for the kids and me to cross the street and even on a one way street you must look both ways. When we've been in line for the elavator, patiently waiting our turn, someone will push their way to get in front of us. "Patiently waiting your turn" is not the mindset here either, which is one of the reasons driving here is so crazy.
The people LOVE children, men and women alike. A huge difference in the people here though is that no one is afraid of telling you what you should do with your children, including strangers in the stores. We've pretty nuch gotten used to it, but are still baffled by it.
Lunch is usually between 1 and 2:30p and a very large meal. Dinner is around 8p and very lite.
Maybe this gives you more of a feel for "Viva en la Republica Dominicana."

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Dog and Play-do

When I can't find Adeline I look in the dog kennel!
After she got out she tried to teach Sarah the "my turn" concept.Our big boy is now sitting up.


Adeline played for hourse with the Play-Do today.


I went to get my nails done this past weekend for only $15 for both hands and feet. The experience I wanted to share is that you take your own nail things with you (trimmer, file, etc). There was a lady getting her hair done and she had brought her own hair products. Not everyone did though. I think it might be common to come once a week here and get your hair straightened for the week. I'm not sure, but I think that's what the ladies were getting done in the salon.
We visited a friend this evening whose husband works for Barrick - Ana Marie. She goes by Annie. I definately have a common name here.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Monday

Our three children...can you guess which one rarely gets to sit on my lap?
All four of us hit the park this morning...look closely for Sarah.




Adeline trying to walk Sarah. The man in the golf cart was coming to tell us to get on the sidewalk. The road is shut down during morning and evening hrs for exercise, so I"m not quite sure why we had to be on the sidewalk.


Taking a break. You can't see this, but htere are wild chickens in the background as well as the ocean.


My friend Melva let me borrow her maid today. Yeah! She worked all day for only $15. She was only expecting $10, but the bus ride alone is over $2. The minimum wage worker gets around 5,000 pesos a month. I can spend that in one grocery trip just to let you know how little that is ($10,000 pesos is approx US $280).

A few pictures

Scott went with Denny & Cynthia to the mission work of our church in a small community - Altagracia. They average around 25 adults and 100 kids each Sunday. Sunday lunch with Edwin, Ana Maria & Maria Fernanda and Denny, Cynthia, & Liah.
Wednesday night...Daddy took Adeline out on the porch to see the moon. Adeline has had a fascination with the moon since Gmommie showed it to her in September.


I know, I know...he's huge! He slept all through the night last night! Whoo-hoo!





Friday, November 14, 2008

A Stroll in the Park

This morning we ventured out to the park near our home. It has a walking trail in the shade, which is very nice in this weather. Someday without kids I'll get to work on the tan :).

The hardest part about going on a walk is just getting out of the house! But after about 30 minutes of getting the kids and Sarah ready we were able to hit the road. I really wish I had my camera, but that would have meant unlocking the door and going back into the house a third time before getting into the elevator. Adeline road in the stroller, Sarah in the basket underneath the stroller, and Darton was in a Bjorn pack on me. After about 15 minutes we took a break and then headed back to the apartment. This time Adeline was walking the dog and Darton was in the stroller, which is why I needed a camera b/c it was the cutset thing watching Adeline either pull the dog or the dog pull her. She didn't give up though. This moment in the park reminded me why I wanted to get a dog...not the moment yesterday when I had 2 poopy diapers and dog's poop in a paper towel in my hand all at the same time!

Monday, November 10, 2008

Holiday in the DR

Today was a holiday and we spent it with church family in the country. It was a nice time of eating and games. The Dominicans aren't afraid of having fun! Grown ladies decided to etertain themselves by racing each other. They were laughing and having so much fun...too bad us white folk tend to be too uptight for such a good time ;)

Don't let the bluejeans fool you into thinking the weather was cooler. It's just the way to keep mosquitos off of you!








Sunday, November 9, 2008

You Won't Believe It!

We got a puppy this weekend! Denny & Cynthia's beagle had puppies a couple of months ago (you saw pics of this same puppy in another blog). We named her Sarah and she's a pretty quick learner. Thankfully tomorrow is a holiday, which gives Scott one more day to work with her before heaidng off to la mina. Darton doesn't like it when Sarah is in his face.





Darton will be 7 months this week!







Thursday, November 6, 2008

Long Anticipated Meeting

Today we met Anastasia and Hartleigh! We've been waiting 7wks for the meeting because they have been in CA visiting family. Hartleigh is one month older than Adeline, but she has a very tall daddy. Our Little Bit only comes up to Hartleigh's shoulders. Darton actually comes up to Adeline's shoulders! Here is a link to pics that Anastasia took.

http://picasaweb.google.com/Godsgrace3/PlaydateNovember08DR02?authkey=xkvcj3GpIXA#

Yes, that's a Christmas tree...it starts very early here ;)

Monday, November 3, 2008

Midnight Scare & God's Sovereignty

Last night Darton woke up around midnight for a feeding. While I was in his room I heard noises, and I looked out the room to see Scott walking around. I asked what he was doing. He said, "Killing a cockroach!"


Now how did he come across a crockroach in the middle of the night????


It woke hime up because it was crawling on his HEAD!! I was mortified that a large crawling bug was in my bed. I told him it must have come through the hole that hasn't been patched yet below our air conditioner.


Here's where the Lord's Sovereignty comes into play...I usually sleep directly under the hole. So if I hadn't been feeding Darton, I would have been the one with a cockroach on my head! I'm not kdding when I say "Praise God" it was Scott's head (and he agrees) and that he was home. Needless to say, we pushed the bed away from the wall (an easy thing on tile floors) and then watched the hole for the next couple of minutes before falling asleep.


Sunday, November 2, 2008

When the Hubby brings home flowers in DR.....




Scott came home with a beautiful bouquet of flowers on Friday. Forget a dozen roses!!




Adeline is now sleeping in a big girl's bed and hasn't fallen out of it! I've been all over the city and can't find bedding I like. Might have to Internet shop and have the family bring it down.





Ana Marie and Maria Fernanda came over on Tuesday to help unpack boxes.




We had church friends over for lunch today which is a DRASTIC change since we now live in the same city as the church we go to. For the past 2 yrs our Battle Mtn family has opened their homes to us EVERY Sunday to enjoy meals and fellowship. This is a picture of Zoe (pronounced "soy") and Adeline jumping. Zoe is only 2 days younger than Adeline.